Tuesday, September 29, 2015

From the Shepherd's Heart, Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Wednesday nights are special around Rainsville First Baptist Church.  There is excitement in the air as we begin the evenings around the tables fellowship with a good meal.

But then the children, youth and adults pour in for all the different ministry opportunities.

Look at a snap-shot of last Wednesday night (9-23-15) and the numbers present:

AWANA - 151 (110 were children; 40 adults)
Youth service - 50
Nursery - 11
Bible Study - 35
Other - 15
Total - 262

Thanks to all who served Saturday night for the quarterly meeting of "Kendle's Friends." It was my honor to speak to the parents while the children were on the hay ride.  What a wonderful evening of ministry and serving.

Sunday evening was such a special moving of His Spirit.  What a great night of worship at RFBC.

The pictures from the church directory are here (but not the Directors yet).  If you did not receive yours this past Sunday, then you can this coming Sunday.

Don't forget the church budget will be voted on this Sunday night (10-4) with no discussion in the evening service.

Love you church family.  Blessings to you.

Monday, September 28, 2015

I Can't Remember


Yesterday I began a new series of messages at Rainsville First Baptist Church "The God Who Forgives."

According to Scripture, the definition of God's forgiveness is that He no longer remembers our sins against us (Jeremiah 31:34).

Brennan Manning was a Catholic priest who wrote some great books including The Ragamuffin Gospel:  Good News for the Bedraggled, Beat-up and Burnt Out.  In the book he tells this story:


A few years ago, rumors spread that a certain Catholic woman was having visions of Jesus. The archbishop decided to check her out.
'Is it true, m'am, that you have visions of Jesus?' asked the cleric.
'Yes,' the woman replied.
'Well, the next time you have a vision, I want you to ask Jesus to tell you the sins that I confessed in my last confession. Please call me if anything happens.'
Ten days later the woman notified her spiritual leader of a recent apparition.
Within the hour the archbishop arrived. 'What did Jesus say?' he asked.
She took his hand and gazed deep into his eyes. 'Bishop,' she said, 'these are his exact words: I CAN'T REMEMBER.'

Praise God our God will no longer remember our sins against us when they are under the blood of Jesus.

Friday, September 25, 2015

Five Questions to Ask Before Joining a Church by Ryan Whitley

Five Questions to Ask Before Joining a Church
Yesterday I provided several reasons one should not join a church.  Today I am sharing five questions you should ask before joining a church.
Question #1: Are you leaving you previous church under good terms?
It does not matter how large or healthy a church is, it will never be absent of conflict.  Conflict is a normal part of church life.  There will always be conflict in the church.  That is why Jesus gave us steps to take to settle conflict (see Matthew 18).  You should never leave a church due to frustration, anger or disappointment.  When you do, you will carry those same attitudes into the new church you join.  Before joining a church, you must leave your previous church under good terms.  If you can leave your previous church in good terms, then you should join the church.
Question #2: Are you willing to trust the leadership?
Every church has its own way of doing things.  Some churches are very organized.  Other congregations are entirely spontaneous.  Your responsibility when joining a church is not to change it, to make it better or to make it into what you want it to be.  No, your job is to trust the leadership.  That trust begins with the pastor and then spread throughout the organizational structure of the church.  Are you willing to trust the leadership?  If so, then you should join the church.
Question #3: Will you faithfully serve the church?
Many churches today have covenants you must sign before joining.  Are you willing to sign that covenant in good faith, and to faithfully serve the church? Are you willing invite other people to the church?  Are you willing to give of your tithe and offerings to the church? Are you willing to accept responsibility in the church?  If you cannot live up to the standard established by that church, then you should not join it.  However, if you can faithfully affirm and abide by the church covenant, then you should join that church.
Question #4: Do plan to establish roots in that church?
Too many people today join a church, and then leave it a short period later.  Church hopping in America is now a cultural norm.  I know people who were once a member of CrossPoint, and now a few years later they have moved their membership four or five times.  That’s just wrong.  When you join a church, you should expect to remain there over the long haul.  If you plan to establish roots in a church, then you should join that church.
Question #5: Is the Lord leading you to the church?
I think an area few people investigate before joining a church is determining whether the Lord is leading them to join that church or not.  You should certainly pray, and ask for the Lord’s guidance before joining another church.  He may have sent you to the church to reveal what is going on in your own heart or in the church where you are currently a member.  Or, He may have sent you to this church to join it.  If you can confidently say the Lord is leading you to the church, then you should join that church?

Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Africa Mission Trip 2015 Report

September 1-17, 2015 was my third consecutive year to do Pastor Conferences in Africa.  The highlights of this year's mission includes:

*  2 days of travel to Africa and one day home
*  35 hours in a plane (not counting airports)
*  33 hours in a van traveling throughout Zimbabwe and Botswana

*  12 lectures given (by me) at three Pastor Conferences lasting from an hour to two hours each.
*  2 Sunday messages given in local churches
*  1 Bible study led in a home

*  Pastor Conferences were conducted in Masvingo, Zimbabwe (75 registered), Rescue Gospel Mission, Bulawayo, Zimbabwe (192 registered) and Open Baptist Church, Gaborone, Botswana (60 registered)

* Was able to give medicines to Rescue Gospel Mission for their medical clinics

*  Added to the Pastor's Library we started last year at Rescue Gospel Mission with more theological books

*  Was able to go again to Victoria Falls (what a blessing) and for the first time visit Hwange National Park in Zimbabwe.

* What a blessing to share this assignment with Ken Galyean (Call to Africa), Larry Wright (Leaders Building Leaders) and Clint Galyean (Call to Africa).

Thanks to CrossRoads Baptist Church for once again providing fully for the Pastor's Conference at Recuse Gospel Mission and to Rainsville First Baptist Church for providing for the medicines and books.  Here are two pictures:  one of the PC at Rescue Gospel Mission and the other at Open Baptist Church.


From the Shepherd's Heart....Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Church family, I cannot thank you enough for your prayers for me while I was away in Africa. I felt them powerfully as God gave me strength to preach and travel.

Thank you again for the cards you sent with me to open each day assuring me of your prayers. The cards were such a blessing.

Thanks to Damon Olson, Isaac Mays, Wally Bryson, Craig White and Max Roden for preaching and teaching God's Word while I was away.

Let me give you an update from the business meeting this past Sunday night:

*  The proposed 2015-16 budget was presented.  Copies are available in the foyer of the church.  The final vote will be Sunday, October 4 in the 6:00 service with no further discussion.  If you have questions, feel free to speak to Daphne Garrett, Jan Peppers or any other member of the Finance Team.  Thanks to this team and all who worked so hard in bringing this to the church.

*  The Nominating Team brought their recommendations for the coming year and they were approved.

*  The Building and Grounds Team brought a recommendation of fixing the fire protections problems we have. The church approved doing this and work should begin soon.

*  Bro. Wally announced we had experienced some termite problems but it had been taken care of.

Sunday was a day mixed with emotions as Bro. Wally Bryson submitted his resignation as our Administrator in light of becoming the Director of Sports, Outreach and Missions at Central Baptist Church, Douglasville, GA where Bro. Steve McFall is Pastor.  This week is his last week here at RFBC.  We are delighted Kelly and Tucker will still be here on Sunday nights and Wednesday nights til Christmas; but we will miss this family.  We thank God for their many contributions woven into the fabric of this church's ministry and mission.  May their ministry be even greater and their impact even deeper for the sake of the Gospel.  Blessings to you

Monday, September 21, 2015

Reasons Not to Join a Church by Ryan Whitley



Last weekend we added several new members to CrossPoint.  Before closing the class I provided several reasons why they should NOT join CrossPoint.  This is something I have done for sometime now.
My list of reasons always produces some strange or quirky looks from potential news members.  This month was no different.
Are there reasons why one should not join a church?  Of course, there are reasons why you should not join a church.
Here are a few:
If you are joining the church for the pastor to conduct your funeral, do not join the church. 
Most pastors will conduct your funeral even if you are not a member.
If you are joining the church for the pastor to perform your wedding ceremony, do not join the church.
Most pastors will conduct your wedding if you both confess Jesus as Lord of your life.
If you are joining the church so you can say you are a member of a church, do not join the church.
            Church membership means more than having your name on a roll.
If you are joining the church because you like the programs and personalities leading the church, do not join the church.
            Programs and personalities are always changing.
If you are joining the church because you are angry with your previous pastor or church, do not join the church.
Return to the church you are leaving in order to seek reconciliation with the pastor and the people before joining another church.
If you are joining a church because you are burned out and want to find a place to hide, do not join the church.
If you are burned out, stay where you are and find a way to graciously refresh yourself.
If you are joining a church because you like the building, do not join the church.
            The church is not where you go; it is what you do.
If you are joining a church because you want the pastor and staff to serve you, do not join the church.
            The church does not exist to serve you; you exist to serve the church.
If you are joining a church to glorify God by serving the church, then by all means, join the church.
The church is not a social club.  Neither is it a place for you to have your needs met.  It is the body of Christ.  And when you join a local church you should sign the membership covenant with the expectation of fulfilling that covenant each day you are a member.

Wednesday, September 16, 2015

10 Ways to “Jump Start” Your Personal Evangelism by Chuck Lawless

You know I’m burdened about my own commitment to reaching the lost. Even as a professor of evangelism, I have to continually push myself to do evangelism. For what it’s worth (and frankly, as a matter of accountability), here are some steps I’m taking to move in the right direction:
  1. Ask God daily to let me see people as He sees them. I tend to see people as the driver in the car who cut me off, the cashier at the gas station, and the neighbor whose name I don’t know. God sees them as sheep without a shepherd and souls for whom Jesus died. 
  2. Ask other believers to pray at least once a week that I will speak the gospel boldly and clearly. This approach is nothing more than what Paul asked the Ephesians and the Colossians to do for him (Eph. 6:18-20; Col. 4:2-4). If Paul needed that kind of prayer support, I surely do.
  3. Ask God to renew my fire for Him. The bottom line for me is this: I do evangelism when I’m most amazed by Jesus. That’s why I wrote Nobodies for Jesus, and now I’m being challenged like never before to apply personally my own teachings.
  4. Pray by name for non-believers at least once a week. I often pray every day for some non-believer, but I have also set up one weekly focused time for praying that God would open the blinded minds of non-believers (2 Cor. 4:3-4).
  5. Strive to speak a good word about God to somebody each day. God is so majestic and His blessings are so numerous that I have no reason not to speak of His goodness. Even if I daily speak those words to only a believer, I develop the practice of moving conversations toward God.
  6. Force myself to get to know people I don’t know. I’m an introvert who would prefer to read a book, but that tendency obviously hinders evangelism. With God’s grace and in His power, I’m learning to push myself out of my shell.
  7. Offer to pray for others. Simply letting people know I’m committed to praying for them can open doors for deeper conversations. Life hurts sometimes, and folks who bear burdens alone are often both surprised by and appreciative of the offer of prayer.
  8. Commit to telling a non-believer what Jesus means to me at least once a week. If one of the above strategies doesn’t open this door, here’s the approach I take: “I’m a follower of Jesus, and I’ve made a personal commitment to tell others what He means to me each week. May I have five minutes to tell you my story, and you help me to know if anything is unclear?” I’ve been surprised by how many people are open to listen.
  9. Use social media to tell the gospel. I need to do evangelism face-to-face, but the Internet also provides multiple avenues for telling others about Jesus. I do not want to miss any opportunities.
  10. Just be obedient because I want to please God. Anything less than a lifestyle of telling others about Jesus – and initiating those conversations because it models our God who came to us while we were yet sinners – would be disobedience.

Monday, September 14, 2015

Spiritual Pride Is Seen By Its Fruit, Not Its Root by Wade Burleson



One of the greatest American theologians in our nation's relatively young history - at least compared to Europe - is the brilliant Jonathan Edwards (1703-1758).

Edwards once wrote an article showing the eight characteristics of spiritual pride, a disease he says "is much more difficult to discern than any other corruption because, by nature, pride is a person having too high a thought of himself" and therefore one afflicted would be unable to see it.

Edwards writes that pride "is the chief inlet of smoke from the bottomless pit to darken the mind and mislead the judgment, and the main handle by which Satan takes hold of Christians to hinder a work of God."

Since pride is "so secretive, and cannot be well discerned by immediate intuition of the thing itself," it's best, says Edwards, to "identify it by its fruits and effects." Edwards then proceeds to name eight characteristics of spiritual pride.
  • The spiritually proud person is full of light already and feels he does not need instruction, so he easily despises instruction and the offer of it.
  • Spiritually prideful people tend to speak loudly and often of others' sins - like the miserable delusion of hypocrites, or the deadness of some saints with bitterness, or the opposition to holiness of many believers - and always finds fault with other saints for their lack of progress in grace.
  • Spiritually proud people often speak of almost everything they see in others in the harshest, most severe language.
  • Spiritual pride often disposes persons to act differently in external appearance, to assume a different way of speaking, countenance or behavior to be seen and praised by others, whereas the humble person never sets himself up to be viewed and observed as one distinguished.
  • Proud people take great notice of opposition and injuries, and are prone to speak often about them with an air of bitterness or contempt.
  • Another pattern of spiritually proud people is to behave in ways that make them the focus of others, coming to expect deference from others and forming an ill opinion of those who do not give them what they feel they deserve.
  • One under the influence of spiritual pride is more apt to instruct others than to ask questions.
  • As spiritual pride disposes people to assume much to themselves, so it disposes to treat others with neglect.
Surprisingly, Edwards sums up his examination of the fruit of spiritual pride by making a statement worthy of consideration by us all:
"We ought to be very careful that we do not refuse to discourse with carnal men because we count them unworthy to be regarded. Instead, we should condescend to carnal men as Christ has condescended to us."
That there's some heavy, thoughtful mental food for those of us who are living in a culture of carnality. Before we speak a word of condemnation about those we perceive to be in sin, we might want to take stock of Edward's keen observations.

Friday, September 11, 2015

Be Pro-sitive!! by Keith Craft

"There is no positive power to change anything by being negative. Be Pro-sitive!"



“Change is going to happen in all of our lives. You can make change work for you and not against you by choosing to be positive. It is impossible for things to change for the good when you are negative about the bad. Being Pro-sitive is about being future-focused. To be future-focused, you have to be forward thinking. Pro in the Latin literally means to be brave in moving forward.
Being Pro-sitive is being brave enough to move forward in the midst of negative people, situations and circumstances. The only reason people are negative is because of negative experiences in the past, that give them a negative view of the future. Be Brave…look past the past…the future is yours to seize!”

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

What is the Eternal Destiny of those who Die in Infancy? by Sam Storms



Recent revelatory videos about the practices of Planned Parenthood have stirred many to ask about the eternal destiny of these precious unborn babies. Here is a shortened version of what I wrote in my book, Tough Topics: Biblical Answers to 25 Challenging Questions(Crossway). If you want a more in-depth analysis that interacts with the many different answers, see Tough Topics, pp. 104-119.
So, are those who die in infancy lost? The same question would apply to those who live beyond infancy but because of mental disability or some other handicap are incapable of moral discernment, deliberation, or volition. This is more than a theoretical issue designed for our speculation and curiosity. It touches one of the most emotionally and spiritually unsettling experiences in all of life: the loss of a young child.
The view that I embrace is that all those dying in infancy, as well as those so mentally incapacitated that they are incapable of making an informed choice, are among the elect of God chosen by him for salvation before the world began. The evidence for this view is scant, but significant.
First, in Romans 1:20 Paul describes people who are recipients of general revelation as being “without excuse.” That is to say, they cannot blame their unbelief on a lack of evidence. There is sufficient revelation of God’s existence in the natural order to establish the moral accountability of all who witness it. Does this imply that those who are not recipients of general revelation (i.e., infants) are therefore not accountable to God or subject to wrath? In other words, would not those who die in infancy have an “excuse” in that they neither receive general revelation nor have the capacity to respond to it?
Second, there are texts which appear to assert or imply that infants do not know good or evil and hence lack the capacity to make morally informed and thus responsible choices. According to Deuteronomy 1:39 they are said to “have no knowledge of good or evil.” This in itself, however, would not prove infant salvation, for they may still be held liable for the sin of Adam.
Third, we must take account of the story of David’s son in 2 Samuel 12:15-23 (esp. v. 23). The first-born child of David and Bathsheba was struck by the Lord and died. In the seven days before his death, David fasted and prayed, hoping that “the Lord may be gracious to me, that the child may live” (v. 22). Following his death, David washed himself, ate food, and worshipped (v. 20). When asked why he responded in this way, he said that the child “has died; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he will not return to me” (v. 23).
What does it mean when David says “I shall go to him”? If this is merely a reference to the grave or death, in the sense that David, too, shall one day die and be buried, one wonders why he would say something so patently obvious! Also, it appears that David draws some measure of comfort from knowing that he will “go to him”. It is the reason why David resumes the normal routine of life. It appears to be the reason David ceases from the outward display of grief. It appears to be a truth from which David derives comfort and encouragement. How could any of this be true if David will simply die like his son? It would, therefore, appear that David believed he would be reunited with his deceased infant. Does this imply that at least this one particular infant was saved? Perhaps. But if so, are we justified in constructing a doctrine in which we affirm the salvation of all who die in infancy?
Fourth, there is the consistent testimony of Scripture that people are judged on the basis of sins voluntary and consciously committed in the body (see 2 Cor. 5:10; 1 Cor. 6:9-10; Rev. 20:11-12). In other words, eternal judgment is always based on conscious rejection of divine revelation (whether in creation, conscience, or Christ) and willful disobedience. Are infants capable of either? There is no explicit account in Scripture of any other judgment based on any other grounds. Thus, those dying in infancy are saved because they do not (indeed cannot) satisfy the conditions for divine judgment.
Fifth, and related to the above point, is what R. A. Webb states. If a deceased infant
“were sent to hell on no other account than that of original sin, there would be a good reason to the divine mind for the judgment, but the child’s mind would be a perfect blank as to the reason of its suffering. Under such circumstances, it would know suffering, but it would have no understanding of the reason for its suffering. It could not tell its neighbor – it could not tell itself – why it was so awfully smitten; and consequently the whole meaning and significance of its sufferings, being to it a conscious enigma, the very essence of penalty would be absent, and justice would be disappointed of its vindication. Such an infant could feel that it was in hell, but it could not explain, to its own conscience, why it was there” (The Theology of Infant Salvation [Harrisonburg, VA: Sprinkle Publications, 1981], 288-89).
Sixth, we have what would appear to be clear biblical evidence that at least some infants are regenerate in the womb, such that if they had died in their infancy they would be saved. This at least provides a theoretical basis for considering whether the same may be true of all who die in infancy. That is to say, “if this sort of thing happens even once, it can certainly happen in other cases” (Ronald Nash, When a Baby Dies [Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1999], 65).These texts include Jeremiah 1:5 and Luke 1:15.
Seventh, some have appealed to Matthew 19:13-15 (Mark 10:13-16; Luke 18:15-17) where Jesus declares, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Is Jesus simply saying that if one wishes to be saved he/she must be as trusting as children, i.e., devoid of skepticism and arrogance? In other words, is Jesus merely describing the kind of people who enter the kingdom? Or is he saying that these very children were recipients of saving grace? But if the latter were true, it would seem to imply that Jesus knew that the children whom he was then receiving would all die in their infancy. Is that credible?
Eighth, Millard Erickson argues for the salvation of deceased infants in an unusual way. He argues that notwithstanding Adam’s sin, there must be a conscious and voluntary decision on our part to embrace or ratify it. Until such is the case, the imputation of Adam’s sin to his physical posterity, as is also true of the imputation of Christ’s righteousness to his spiritual posterity, is conditional. Thus, prior to reaching the “age of accountability” all infants are innocent. When and in what way does this ratification of Adam’s sin come about? Erickson explains:
“We become responsible and guilty when we accept or approve of our corrupt nature. There is a time in the life of each one of us when we become aware of our own tendency toward sin. At that point we may abhor the sinful nature that has been there all the time. We would in that case repent of it and might even, if there is an awareness of the gospel, ask God for forgiveness and cleansing. . . . But if we acquiesce in that sinful nature, we are in effect saying that it is good. In placing our tacit approval upon the corruption, we are also approving or concurring in the action in the Garden of Eden so long ago. We become guilty of that sin without having to commit a sin of our own” (Christian Theology [Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1984], 2:639).
But there are at least two problems with this. First, if we are born with a corrupt and sinful nature, as Erickson concedes we are, our willing ratification of Adam’s transgression and the guilt and corruption of nature which are its effects is itself an inevitable effect of the corrupt nature to which we are now ostensibly giving our approval. In other words, how else could a person who is born corrupt and wicked respond but in a corrupt and wicked way, namely, by ratifying Adam’s sin? If Erickson should suggest that such a response is not inevitable, one can only wonder why it is that every single human being who ever lived (except Jesus) ratifies and embraces the sin of Adam and its resultant corruption of nature. Surely someone, somewhere would have said No. Erickson would have to argue that at the point when each soul becomes morally accountable it enters a state of complete moral and spiritual equilibrium, in no way biased by the corruption of nature and wicked disposition with which it was born.
But that leads to the second problem, for it would mean that each of us experiences our own Garden of Eden, as it were. Each human soul stands its own probation at the moment the age of moral accountability is reached. But if that is so, what is the point of trying to retain any connection at all between what Adam did and who/what we are? If ultimately I become corrupt by my own first choice, what need is there of Adam? And if I am corrupt antecedent to that first choice, we are back to square one: my guilt and corruption inherited from Adam, the penal consequence of his choice as the head and representative of the race.
Finally, let me close with a ninth argument that is entirely subjective in nature (and therefore of questionable evidential value). We must ask the question: Given our understanding of the character of God as presented in Scripture, does he appear as the kind of God who would eternally condemn infants on no other ground than that of Adam’s transgression? Admittedly, this is a subjective (and perhaps sentimental) question. But it deserves an answer, nonetheless.
I can only speak for myself, but I find the first, third, fourth, fifth, and ninth points sufficiently convincing. Therefore, I do believe in the salvation of those dying in infancy. I affirm their salvation, however, neither because they are innocent nor because they have merited God’s forgiveness but solely because God has sovereignly chosen them for eternal life, regenerated their souls, and applied the saving benefits of the blood of Christ to them apart from conscious faith.

Monday, September 7, 2015

Farther Along by Gold City

My friends and still one of the best quartets in Southern Gospel music - GOLD CITY from Glencoe, AL with their new bass singer,  Chris West.

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Why We Fail at Family Devotions by Tim Challies

I have written about family devotions a number of times (most recently in How We Do Family Devotions), and it always leads to a response. Whenever I write about the subject, I immediately receive emails and messages from people who have tried and failed, or who are still trying and are convinced they are failing. I compiled some of that feedback and came up with a list of reasons we fail at family devotions.

We Make it Too Hard

I think the main reason we fail is that we make it too hard. Family devotions are the simplest thing in the world. We just need to get the family together, and then read the Bible and pray. Anything beyond that is gravy. Sing a song if you like. Engage in discussion if you like. Memorize a catechism if you like. Don’t feel like you need to begin with more than the basics. Don’t feel like you have failed if you do not get beyond the very basics.Read a few verses and pray. Then, the next day, read and pray. And the day after that. And the one after that. Take Sunday off (Hey, you’ve been to church, right?) but then pick it right up again on Monday. And just keep going.
I am convinced a lot of people fail because we feel that Word and prayer are not enough. We read books and blogs by people who do so much more and feel that we do not measure up. We finish, see that only 5 minutes have elapsed, and feel like that can’t possibly be enough. It is easier to not do devotions at all than to do them simply. Don’t fall into that trap. Word and prayer are enough. Word and prayer are awesome. Make the fact that you do them more important than how you do them.

We Measure Too Short

Another reason we fail at family devotions is that we give up too quickly. We measure short instead of long. We do it for a few weeks or a few months and don’t see any significant results. Our kids still look bored. Our spouse still doesn’t really buy into it. We ourselves find any excuse to take a day off. And we begin to wonder if this is really worth it, if this is really making a difference.
But we need to measure long, not short. We need to think more about eighteen or twenty years of exposure to the Bible than eighteen days or eighteen weeks. We need to think about our own lives and how we need to hear things a hundred times, not one or two times, before we respond to that conviction. We need to remember and believe that God works through these simple means, but that he does so at his own pace. We need to believe that God honors the means he provides.

We Do It Out of Guilt, Not Conviction

Here is a third reason we fail: We do family devotions out of guilt, not conviction. We hear a sermon illustration about family devotions or get challenged by a book we read. We decide that it is time to finally do this thing, to finally begin this habit. But we are doing so out of guilt rather than real conviction. Our motives are all wrong.
Guilt can motivate for a while, but not for long. When times get difficult or when the guilt begins to fade, it is only conviction that will keep us going. Make sure that you are doing family devotions out of true conviction. Know in your own mind that this is a valuable habit and that God calls you, as the parent, to lead your family in this way. Go to the Word of God and allow God to challenge you with the importance of reading his Word and praying to him.

Our Spouse Won’t Do It

This may be the most difficult scenario: We do not do family devotions because our spouse will not participate. Sometimes dad wants to do family devotions but mom will not agree. Far more commonly, though, mom is desperate to see dad lead family devotions but he is just not interested. I can’t even tell you all the times I have seen or heard of this very scenario.
Each one of these situations needs to be approached differently and carefully. Husband, speak to your wife and appeal to her to participate. If she will not, then consider going ahead and doing devotions with your children. Wife, appeal to your husband to take the lead in devotions and full-out support him, affirming his every move. If he will not take the lead, perhaps consider leading devotions on your own. In either case, remember that the local church is your ally here, both through other members who may be able to offer counsel and through pastors or elders.

We Get Proud

Finally, we also fail because we get proud. Here’s what I mean: We try family devotions. It goes well for a week. Then we forget all about it. A couple of months later we try again, feeling a little sheepish this time. We explain to the family “It’s my fault, but I really want us to commit to this and to make it work.” This time we do it for a couple of weeks, but then stop again. The third time around we feel even more embarrassed about telling our family that yes, we are doing this again and that yes, it’s dad’s fault again. Pride rears its ugly head and it seems easier to just succumb to the failure than to rise to the challenge. We get proud and allow pride to withhold a blessing from our family.
Look, family devotions is a sweet and simple habit, a sweet and simple discipline. It is called family devotions not only because it is a gathering of the family, but because it is meant to be by and for your family. Make sure you allow your family devotions to reflect the uniqueness of your family. Make them your own, and do them for the good of your family and the glory of God. Mostly, just do them.

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

From the Shepherd's Heart...September 1, 2015

Here is my itinerary for the Africa Pastor's Conference:

Tuesday, September 1 - Fly out of Huntsville to Atlanta then on to Johannesburg, South Africa leaving about 6:00 Tuesday night (our time arriving late Wednesday afternoon (local Africa time).  We spend the night in Jburg.

Thursday, September 3 - We fly out Thursday morning to Bulawayo, Zimbabwe for our hour flight arriving about noon.  We will leave either Thursday night or early Friday morning for Masvingo.

Friday, September 4 - Sunday, September 6:  Pastor's Conference in Masvingo, Zimbabwe

Monday, September 7 - travel day from Masvingo back to Bulawayo

Tuesday, September 8 - sitting up for the PC

Wednesday, September 9 through Saturday, September 12:  Pastor's Conference at Gospel Rescue Mission with Pastor Dumie.  (This is the primary conference)

Sunday, September 13 - travel day from Bulawayo to Gaborone, Botswana

Monday, September 14-Wednesday, September 16 - Pastor's Conference at Open Baptist Church, Gaborone.

Wednesday, September 16 - late afternoon fly out of Gaborone to Johannesburg and then a flight that night back to Atlanta.

Thursday, September 17 - arriving back in Atlanta and then on to Huntsville

(The flag in the upper corner is the Zimbabwe flag).