Monday, July 31, 2017

Seven Things Church Members Should Say to Guests by Thom S. Rainer

One of the more common questions I’m asked relates to growth barriers. For example, church leaders may want to know how to move past the 150-attendance level of the past five years. Or other leaders desire to know how to break though financial giving barriers.
Those questions are tough because they often presume a brief response to be adequate. In reality, there are many theological and methodological issues at work in growth barriers. Today, I am looking at a very basic barrier: lack of friendliness to church guests.
In a previous blog post, I noted things we should not say to a guest in our worship services. In today’s post I look at the positive perspective: seven things we should say to guests.
  1. “Thank you for being here.” It’s just that basic. I have heard from numerous church guests who returned because they were simply told “thank you.”
  2. “Let me help you with that.” If you see someone struggling with umbrellas, young children, diaper bags, purses, and other items, a gesture to hold something for them is a huge positive. Of course, this comment is appropriate for member to member as well.
  3. “Please take my seat.” I actually heard that comment twice in a church where I was speaking in the Nashville area. The first comment came from a member to a young family of five who were trying to find a place to sit together.
  4. “Here is my email address. Please let me know if I can help in any way.” Of course, this comment must be used with discretion, but it can be a hugely positive message to a guest.
  5. “Can I show you where you need to go?” Even in smaller churches, guests will not know where to find the nursery, restrooms, and small group meeting areas. You can usually tell when a guest does not know where he or she is to go.
  6. “Let me introduce you to ___________.” The return rate of guests is always higher if they meet other people. A church member may have the opportunity to introduce the guest to the pastor, other church staff, and other members of the church.
  7. “Would you join us for lunch?” I saved this question for last for two reasons. First, the situation must obviously be appropriate before you offer the invitation. Second, I have seen this approach have the highest guest return rate of any one factor. What if your church members sought to invite different guests 6 to 12 times a year? The burden would not be great; but the impact would be huge.
Let’s look at one example of breaking attendance barriers by saying the right things to guests. Presume your church has two first-time guests a week. Over the course of a year, the church would have 100 first-time guests. With most of the members being genuinely guest friendly, you could see half of those guests become active members. Attendance could thus increase by as much as 50 persons every year.
This article originally appeared at ThomRainer.com and is used with permission.

Wednesday, July 26, 2017

From the Shepherd's Heart...Wednesday, July 26, 2017

In 1980, Lee Strobel's award-winning investigative reporting earned him a promotion to legal editor at the Chicago Tribune.  Things at home weren't going nearly as well.  His wife Leslie's newfound faith in Christ compelled Lee to utilize his journalistic and legal training to disprove the claims of Christianity - pitting his resolute atheism against her growing faith.

Based on Strobel's best-selling book of the same name, The Case for Christ movie is a dramatic and heart-felt telling of his compelling journey.  The movie is for those who are looking for faith, have lost faith along the way, or are strong in faith but desire to trust God more deeply.

See this movie this Sunday night, July 30 at 6:00 p.m.  This is a free event.

Monday, July 24, 2017

The Ten Boom House: Trusting God's Will by James Emery White

In the late 1930s, Corrie ten Boom was living in a small town in the Netherlands, better known as Holland. Her home, called the Beje (pronounced bay-yay), was a tilting, centuries-old house in the center of Haarlem and its bumpy brick streets.
Actually it was two houses. In front it looked like a typical old-Haarlem structure: three stories high, two rooms deep and one room wide. But sometime in its history the rear wall had been knocked through to join it with the even thinner, steeper house behind it.
Horrified by the German onslaught against the Jewish people of her country, Corrie – along with her family – began to hide within their home those most threatened by arrest. It was precisely the eccentric design and construction of their house that allowed such a perfect “hiding place” to be built in Corrie’s bedroom. To this day, you can tour the home and see where so many Jewish persons were hidden, protected from capture and, most certainly, death.
The family was eventually discovered for doing this and transported deep within Germany to a place whose very name struck terror – Ravensbruck, the notorious extermination camp. Her father died within the first two weeks of his arrest. Corrie’s sister, Betsie, eventually died in Ravensbruck as well.
Corrie survived. The humiliation, the beatings, the deprivation, the starvation, the sickness, the stench – she survived. Corrie spent the rest of her life speaking of Christ’s love and forgiveness, mercy and sustenance, goodness and trustworthiness, wherever she went. Eventually her story was captured in the bestselling book The Hiding Place, one of the most life-changing biographies you will ever read. Corrie became an ambassador to the world.
I traveled to see her house in Haarlem, to see the “hiding place” and, perhaps most of all, to remember what it means to trust God.
Corrie learned to trust God early through the faith of her family. When she witnessed the death of a baby as a young girl, she realized that death could come to anyone. That night she burst into tears and sobbed to her father: “I need you! You can’t die! You can’t!”
Her father sat down on the edge of her narrow bed. “Corrie,” he began gently, “when you and I go to Amsterdam – when do I give you your ticket?”
She sniffed a few times, considering his words.
“Why, just before we get on the train.”
“Exactly. And our wise Father in heaven knows when we’re going to need things, too. Don’t run out ahead of him, Corrie. When the time comes that some of us will have to die, you will look into your heart and find the strength you need – just in time.”
Trusting in God is an interesting thing. It involves a “letting go.”
If I trust you with something, it means I give it to you. It passes from my hand to yours. It is no longer in my possession. If I have confidence in your character and abilities, there is a relief at the passing. I no longer worry or concern myself with the matter. It is, as they say, “in good hands.” This means that trust is very much about the person being trusted. It also means acceptance. If I trust you, then I accept what you say and what you do.
We are called to trust God in the same way including the ultimate area of trust: His will.
The primary will of God for your life is the same as it is for everybody else – to know and to love Him. When someone asked Jesus what the heart of life was all about, what the ultimate law to follow was, this is what He said: “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment” (Matthew 22:37-38, NIV). We came into that love relationship through our acceptance of Christ’s work on the cross.
The second major dimension of God’s will for your life is His moral will. God’s moral will has to do with how we should think and believe, what we should value and honor and, from that, how we should live.
We want to trust God, particularly by following His will for our lives. But that means following His moral will, for it is precisely His moral will that is at the heart of trust.
If you want to know what God’s moral will is, just ask yourself this question: What does the Bible say?
Yes, that seems simplistic. And interpreting the Bible is not always easy. But most of the time, it is simple. Notice how the Apostle Paul explains this in his second letter to Timothy: “All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It straightens us out and teaches us to do what is right. It is God’s way of preparing us in every way, fully equipped for every good thing God wants us to do” (2 Timothy 3:16-17, NLT).
If you’re struggling with whether God wants you to do something, or whether it’s okay with God, you can stop struggling. God has already spoken and made His will known to you because His guidance for the day-in, day-out flow of your life is primarily moral. The question is whether you will trust it.
One night in the Beje, while Holland desperately fought a battle against a German invasion it would eventually lose, dogfights raged overhead, streaking the sky above with fire. Corrie heard her sister stirring in the kitchen and decided to get up and join her.
Suddenly there was an explosion, rattling the dishes in the cupboard. Corrie and Betsie stayed up another hour, talking. When Corrie returned to her bed, she found a jagged piece of metal, 10 inches long, that had cut through her pillow where her head had been laying.
“Betsie, if I hadn’t heard you in the kitchen–”
But Betsie put a finger on her mouth. “Don’t say it, Corrie! There are no ‘ifs’ in God’s world. And no places that are safer than other places. The center of His will is our only safety – O Corrie, let us pray that we may always know it!”
She was right.
The center of God’s will, and specifically his moral will…
… is the safest place on earth.
James Emery White
Sources
Adapted from James Emery White, A Traveler’s Guide to the Kingdom(InterVarsity Press).
Corrie ten Boom, The Hiding Place.



About the Author


James Emery White is the founding and senior pastor of Mecklenburg Community Church in Charlotte, NC, and the ranked adjunctive professor of theology and culture at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, where he also served as their fourth president. His latest book, Meet Generation Z: Understanding and Reaching the New Post-Christian World, is available on Amazon. To enjoy a free subscription to the Church & Culture blog, visit ChurchAndCulture.org, where you can view past blogs in our archive and read the latest church and culture news from around the world. Follow Dr. White on twitter @JamesEmeryWhite. 

Friday, July 21, 2017

From the Shepherd's Heart....Friday, July 21, 2017

This Sunday we continue our preaching through Luke 9 as we look at what is called The Transfiguration in Luke 9: 28-36.  But the Transfiguration was not for Jesus as much as it was for the disciples.  Why?

What the three disciples experienced that day they would never forget and while it would have an immediate impact, the greater impact (especially for Peter) was later.

They experienced the glory of God in Jesus.

Have you experienced that glory?  Should we expect to experience it?  And if so, what are the results?

Then Sunday night our Nicaragua Mission Team will be sharing in the 6:00 service.  Keith has arranged this for a impactful night of hearing about The Hope Project but through the eyes of wonderful people we all love and know.  Be present to hear and be challenged.

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

From the Shepherd's Heart...Wednesday, July 19, 2017

I know you are most likely "shocked" to see Mark Busby and his family's picture on my blog today.  I just decided to put it there and ask you to pray for them today.  Ask the Lord to refresh them physically and spiritually as they serve our Lord in Japan.

I look forward to seeing you tonight as we worship at 6:10 in the Auditorium.  I am dealing with the passage of Luke 6: 43-45 and I love what I have seen.  Can't wait to share it.

Bro. Keith will be leading us in music and we will have a time of prayer.  See you here!!!

Kyle McClain is speaking tonight for the Youth in their 6:10 service.

So excited to welcome Zac and Anna Gardner to our church after the church voted Sunday to call him as our Student Pastor.  He will begin Wednesday, August 2 - in two weeks.

We still need two more coaches for Upward Football.  If you feel led to coach, contact the church this week.  Friday, the teams are drafted.

Mark Sunday, August 6 on your calendar.  We are calling ALL adults and youth to meet in the Auditorium at 9:00 for a Vision casting day with some of our leaders sharing about our upcoming Debt Retirement campaign and I'll be closing the time sharing some exciting news, as well.

Sunday night, July 30 we are showing the movie "The Case for Christ" at 6:00.

A hard-driving journalist, Lee Strobel was exactly where he expected to be at work: on top. His award-winning investigative reporting recently earned him a promotion to legal editor at the Chicago Tribune. But things weren’t going nearly as well at home where his wife Leslie’s newfound faith in Christ went against everything Lee believed—or didn’t believe—as an avowed atheist.
Utilizing his journalistic and legal training, Lee begins a quest to debunk the claims of Christianity in order to save his crumbling marriage. Chasing down the biggest story of his career, Lee comes face-to-face with unexpected results that could change everything he knows to be true.
Based on Lee Strobel’s award-winning bestselling book and starring Mike Vogel, Erika Christensen, Faye Dunaway, and Robert Forster, THE CASE FOR CHRIST  is a must see.

Monday, July 17, 2017

Why Is It Important to Be Part of a Local Church? by Dan Reiland

I didn’t grow up attending church regularly. I did attend a neighborhood church on Easter and Christmas if my parents took me. But it seemed like something you did for the holidays.
It wasn’t until I was 18 years old and invited by a friend that church suddenly became personal. It was a much larger church and still seemed irrelevant at first. However, the fact that my friend liked it made me curious.
My friend’s interest in me gave me the time and space I needed to see that the Kingdom of God was far bigger than my small and limited notion of church. That didn’t happen overnight, in fact, it took months.
I met people and experienced moments that convinced me there was something about “church” that was far more than a holiday tradition. Later that year, I said yes to Jesus’ invitation to eternal life. None of this would have happened without the church in some form, shape or expression.

It’s that simple. It’s been my experience that when you disconnect from the church (the people), you begin to drift spiritually. That’s not always the case, but in the majority of situations, that represents reality.
Church has changed a lot since I was 18, but the essence is the same. The methods are radically different, but the message is the same. The current culture is dramatically different, but the human condition remains the same.
We need Christ, and we need each other, that truth won’t change. The Church is the greatest force on earth to that end.

4 good reasons it’s important to be part of a local church:

1) We tend to drift spiritually when not connected relationally.

A church is not required for salvation and spiritual growth, but without it, both become more challenging. Without the Church as the foundation (the organized body of Christ in some fashion), the message of Jesus travels much slower.
When we drift from a community of believers, the human mind begins to rationalize. “I love God, and He loves me, I don’t need to go to church.” That’s true, but it’s only a half-truth, and half-truths often lead us down a dangerous road.
The other half is the overwhelming evidence that when you are connected to a group of committed believers, the likelihood of your continued spiritual growth is exponentially higher.

2) Christianity was never intended to be an independent endeavor.

The nature of Christianity is essentially relational. The primary relationship is between God and man – God and woman. That relationship was perfect until broken by sin. (Genesis 3:1-19) The relationship was restored by a covenant (relationship), through Abraham (Genesis 12:2-3). That covenant promise was fulfilled through Christ, also a personal relationship.
Christianity was never intended to be a “Lone Ranger” proposition. We need each other. There is no perfect church, and there are no perfect Christians, but together we help each other become the persons God intended us to be.

3) Our shared gifts, talents and resources make us stronger.
None of us are as strong alone as we are together. The spiritual gifts listed in passages such as Romans 12:4-7, Ephesians 4:11-12, and I Corinthians 12:4-11 paint a great picture of how we work together and strengthen each other.
I can’t say it better than what is written in Ephesians chapter 4.
11 So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, 12 to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up.
16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.

4) God ordained the Church as His organized plan for redemption.


10 His intent was that now, through the church, the manifold wisdom of God should be made known to the rulers and authorities in the heavenly realms, 11 according to his eternal purpose that he accomplished in Christ Jesus our Lord. 12 In him and through faith in him we may approach God with freedom and confidence.
Ephesians 3:10-12
If Church is God’s idea, then for believers, it’s worth more than academic consideration or participation during the holidays. Your life becomes deeper and richer as you give your whole heart to the people and the mission of the Church.

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

From the Shepherd's Heart...Wednesday, July 12, 2017

This Saturday (10-12) is the last day for Upward Football and Cheerleader Sign-up and Evaluations.  To participate in the program, every child must attend one of the evaluations.

The cost per child is $65.00 and practices begin July 31 with the first games August 12.

So excited to have made the announcement  Sunday about Zac Gardner coming this weekend in view of a call as our Student Pastor.  See yesterday's blog post for the full details.  Be praying for Zac and Anna and our church through this exciting weekend.

Tonight is Business meeting at 6:10.  We will begin our business session immediately at 6:10 and we will answer any questions you have about the conditions of the call of Bro. Zac.  There will be no discussion this Sunday when we vote at the close of the morning service.

Then tonight I will conclude my teaching from the passage in Luke 6 about "Judge not."  This will be an interesting study.

Thank you for your prayers for the Mobile Mission trip last week.  It was a tremendous week of ministry and made especially delightful to serve alongside of the Mountain View Baptist Church. Thanks to Pastor Brian Harris and all their mission team for a wonderful week of ministry.

Thanks to all of our great folks who served another year in Mobile.  It was a pure delight to be with each of them.  Great things God has done.

Tuesday, July 11, 2017

From the Shepherd's Heart...The Calling of Zac Gardner

The Pastor, Personnel Team and Youth Council gladly recommend

Zachary G. (Zac) Gardner as our Student Pastor

  •  Zac and his wife, Anna Petty Gardner, were married June 10, 2017
  • They are currently members of Ft. Payne First Baptist Church.
  •  Zac is a graduate of Crossville High School, Northeast Community College and Athens State University with a B.S. in Biology and was planning to be a pharmacist until the Lord called him into ministry.  He did his student teaching this spring at Ft. Payne High School although he does not plan to pursue teaching as a career.
  • Anna is a lifelong member at Ft. Payne First Baptist Church and a graduate of Ft. Payne High School and UAB.  She is employed as an R.N. at Erlanger Hospital.
  • Zac has been licensed by the Bethlehem Baptist Church of Sardis.
  • He currently is employed as a Pharmacy Technician at the Crossville Drugs which is owned by his father.
  • Zac will begin New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary this fall (online and here at RFBC) working toward a Master of Divinity degree with a Specialization in Christian Theology.
  • He has served on a limited basis in Peru and Honduras involved in preaching, teaching, evangelism, discipleship and ministry.
  • He has led a Community Bible study group in the Crossville area for almost four years for young adults.
  • He blogs at thecommunityword.wordpress.com.
  • He has a deep passion to train disciples to be fervent in prayer, study of Scripture, and evangelism.
  
Plans to Meet Zac and Anna

All students, their parents and the church are invited to meet Zac and Anna Saturday night, July 15 at 6:00 in the Student Center. There will be light refreshments.

Zac will be preaching next Sunday morning, July 16 in the 10:15 and we will vote immediately following the service by a voice vote to affirm the recommendation of our Pastor, Personnel Team and Youth Council.




Monday, July 10, 2017

Whom Does God Worship on Sunday? by John Piper



Before C.S. Lewis was a Christian, God’s demand for worship was a great obstacle to his faith.|
 He said it seemed to him like “a vain woman who wants compliments.” But then as he discovered the nature of worship, the question about God’s seeming vanity (or megalomania) was also answered. He wrote,
The most obvious fact about praise — whether of God or anything — strangely escaped me. I thought of it in terms of compliment, approval, or the giving of honor. I had never noticed that all enjoyment spontaneously overflows into praise. . . . The world rings with praise — lovers praising their mistresses, readers their favorite poet, walkers praising the countryside, players praising their favorite game — praise of weather, wines, dishes, actors, horses, colleges, countries, historical personages, children, flowers, mountains, rare stamps, rare beetles, even sometimes politicians and scholars.
My whole, more general difficulty about the praise of God depended on my absurdly denying to us, as regards the supremely Valuable, what we delight to do, what indeed we can’t help doing, about everything else we value.
I think we delight to praise what we enjoy because the praise not merely expresses but completes the enjoyment; it is its appointed consummation. It is not out of compliment that lovers keep on telling one another how beautiful they are; the delight is incomplete till it is expressed. (Reflections on the Psalms)
In other words, genuine, heartfelt praise is not artificially added to joy. It is the consummation of joy itself. The joy we have in something beautiful or precious is not complete until it is expressed in some kind of praise.

Answer to God’s Seeming Megalomania

Lewis saw the implication of this for God’s seemingly vain command that we worship him. Now he saw that this was not vanity or megalomania. This was love. This was God seeking the consummation of our joy in what is supremely enjoyable: himself.
If God demeaned his supreme worth in the name of humility, we would be the losers, not God. God is the one being in the universe for whom self-exaltation is the highest virtue. For there is only one supremely beautiful being in the universe. There is only one all-satisfying person in the universe. And because of his supreme beauty and greatness, what the psalmist says in Psalm 16:11 is true: “In your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” If God hides that, or denies that, he might seem humble, but he would be hiding from us the very thing that would make us completely happy forever.
But if God loves us the way the Bible says he does, then he will give us what is best for us. And what is best for us is himself. So, if God loves us fully, God will give us God, for our enjoyment and nothing less. But if our enjoyment is not complete until it comes to completion in praise, then God would not be loving if he was indifferent to our praise. If he didn’t pursue our praise in all that he does (as we have seen!), he would not be pursuing the fullness of our satisfaction. He would not be loving.
So, what emerges is that God’s pervasive self-exaltation in the Bible — his doing everything to display his glory and to win our worship — is not unloving; it is the way an infinitely all-glorious God loves. His greatest gift of love is to give us a share in the very satisfaction that he has in his own excellence, and then to call that satisfaction to its fullest consummation in praise. This is why I maintain that the supremely authentic and intense worship of God’s worth and beauty is the ultimate aim of all his work and word.

Supremely Authentic and Intense

But what about those words “supremely authentic and intense”? And what about that phrase “white-hot worship”? When I use the phrase “white-hot worship,” I am calling out the visceral implications of the words “supremely authentic and intense.”
The reason words like these are important is that there is a correlation between the measure of our intensity in worship and the degree to which we exhibit the value of the glory of God. Lukewarm affection for God gives the impression that he is moderately pleasing. He is not moderately pleasing. He is infinitely pleasing. If we are not intensely pleased, we need forgiveness and healing. Which, of course, we do.
We know this because Jesus said to the church at Laodicea, “Because you are lukewarm . . . I will spit you out of my mouth” (Revelation 3:16). The opposite of being lukewarm in our affections for Jesus is what Paul commands in Romans 12:11, “Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit . . .” The word fervent in the original (zeontes), means “boiling.” The intensity of our worship matters. Jesus indicted the hypocrites of his day by saying, “This people honors [or worships] me with their lips, but their heart is far from me” (Matthew 15:8). Authentic worship comes from the heart, not just the lips.

Undivided and Fervent

A key measure of a heart’s worship is whether it is authentic and intense or divided and tepid. Authentic means undivided, genuine, real, sincere, unaffected. Intensity implies energy, vigor, ardor, fervor, passion, zeal.
The Bible does not leave us wondering what kind of worship God is aiming at in all his work and word. Over and over God calls for our hearts to be authentic and undivided in our worship.
  • “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind” (Luke 10:27).
  • You shall “search after him with all your heart and with all your soul” (Deuteronomy 4:29);
  • And “serve the Lord your God with all your heart” (Deuteronomy 10:12);
  • And “[turn] to him with all your heart” (1 Samuel 7:3);
  • And “trust in the Lord with all your heart” (Proverbs 3:5);
  • And “rejoice and exult with all your heart” (Zephaniah 3:14);
  • And give thanks to the Lord with your whole heart (Psalm 9:1).
No competitors. No half-hearted affections.
And the Bible makes clear what level of worship intensity God is pursuing. When Peter wrote to the churches of Asia Minor, he did not consider inexpressible joy to be exceptional, but typical: “Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory” (1 Peter 1:8).
The psalmist had tasted this kind of joy and made it his lifelong quest. “As a deer pants for flowing streams, so pants my soul for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God” (Psalm 42:1–2). “O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water” (Psalm 63:1).
Similarly, the early Christians had tasted the joy set before them, and when they were called on to suffer with their imprisoned friends, they showed how intensely they cherished their heavenly treasure by the way they responded to losing their earthly one: “You had compassion on those in prison, and you joyfully accepted the plundering of your property, since you knew that you yourselves had a better possession and an abiding one” (Hebrews 10:34; cf. 11:24–26; 12:2).
God is not pursuing lukewarm worship, but worship that is supremely authentic and intense — everlasting, white-hot worship. It will never end. “To him who sits on the throne and to the Lamb be blessing and honor and glory and might forever and ever!” (Revelation 5:13). White-hot and without end. That’s the goal of creation and redemption.

Sorrow of Our Shortfall

Of course, one of the great sorrows of this fallen age is that we fall short of that measure of authenticity and intensity every day. God knows our frame, that we are dust (Psalm 103:14). He knows his own children. He can discern worship that is true, even if flawed. And he will not leave us in this frustrated brokenness forever.
When Jesus prayed that we would see his glory beyond the dimness and dysfunction of this world (John 17:24), he also prayed that our love for him would be purified and made unimaginably intense. “[Father, I pray] that the love with which you have loved me may be in them, and I in them” (John 17:26).
Someday we will love Jesus with the very love that God the Father has for God the Son. This is literally unimaginable. For the Father loves the Son with infinite love — a love whose authenticity and intensity cannot be measured. So, don’t lose heart in all your struggles to love him as you ought. The day is coming when we will see him as he is. We will be changed. We will love him with a love beyond imagination. It will be supremely authentic and supremely intense.